I know this thought is a paraphrase of a meme…
It doesn’t matter who you love or how you love. If you are a dick, being gay or straight isn’t going to change that.
If you are a Christian and say “hate the sin”, then you have consigned someone to Hell. That’s not love. Try, “love the sinner and don’t care about what the sin is.” Then you are doing what Christ did. It’s not the “speck” in their eye that’s the problem. It’s the log in my own.
*editorial. I know that it’s an “unconventional” belief for my demographic but, I can not find it in my heart to see being gay as a sin. My friend Z is the way she was created. The capacity for love and its expression is not, in my opinion, sin*